The epitome of
submissiveness, Catherine is as feminine and gentle as they come to Henry. She
devotes herself to him and asks for nothing in return, and in the end makes the
ultimate sacrifice: she dies due to injuries sustained by giving birth to
Henry's child. When Henry learns of the first complications, he remarks "Poor, poor dear Cat. And this was the price you
paid for sleeping together. This was the end of the trap. This was what people
got for loving each other. Thank God for gas, anyway. What must it have been
like before there were anesthetics?" (320). He makes sure to point out
that "this was the price you paid for sleeping together," as if she was solely
responsible for the pregnancy. Further, Henry uses Catherine as a distraction
when he wants, and disregards her otherwise. When he returns to the front, he
speculates to himself "I was going to try not to think about Catherine
except at night before I went to sleep" (166). He is deliberately choosing
when and when not to think about her, which is very disrespectful to the woman
he "loves. " And finally, Henry's ultimate insult is when he his
saying his last goodbye to Cat's corpse. He comments "It was like saying
good-by to a statue" (332). Without being alive to pamper him, Catherine
has lost her appeal and becomes as meaningful to him as rock. Her role as
gentle and sweet woman has passed, so Henry moves on immediately.
Since the Civil Rights movement the situation for women has gotten
better, but there are still some scary statistics about unfair wages and
privileges regarding women's rights. Independent and strong women are viewed as
cold and belligerent, whereas independent and strong men are powerful and
aggressive. And likewise, timid and submissive women are revered, while timid
and submissive men have their masculinity questioned. Hemingway's novel A Farewell to Arms brings about this
theme and demonstrates how men like Henry can take advantage of women like
Catherine.